The original paid dating site, built for serious relationships.
- Price
- From $19.99/mo
- Best for
- Adults 30+ who want a committed relationship
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Compatibility-quiz matchmaking for marriage-minded singles.
- Price
- From $35.90/mo
- Best for
- People looking for a long-term partner who want matches chosen for them
The prompt-based app "designed to be deleted."
- Price
- From about $17/mo
- Best for
- Daters in their 20s and 30s who want a relationship, not endless swiping
See the full ranking: the best dating sites for serious relationships
The prompt-based app "designed to be deleted."
- Price
- From about $17/mo
- Best for
- Daters in their 20s and 30s who want a relationship, not endless swiping
Swipe app with some of the strongest safety tools.
- Price
- From about $9/mo
- Best for
- Women who want more control over who contacts them
The biggest swipe app, for everything from casual to serious.
- Price
- From about $6/mo
- Best for
- Younger daters who want the largest pool
The original paid dating site, built for serious relationships.
- Price
- From $19.99/mo
- Best for
- Adults 30+ who want a committed relationship
Low-cost dating for singles over 50.
- Price
- From about $6/mo
- Best for
- People over 50 on a budget
Compatibility-quiz matchmaking for marriage-minded singles.
- Price
- From $35.90/mo
- Best for
- People looking for a long-term partner who want matches chosen for them
See the full ranking: the best dating sites for people over 50
Dating and community for queer women and non-binary people.
- Price
- From about $8/mo
- Best for
- Lesbian, bi and queer women and non-binary people
Long-running, low-cost dating for Black singles.
- Price
- From about $12/mo
- Best for
- Black singles who want an affordable site
The best-known site for Christian singles.
- Price
- From $24.99/mo
- Best for
- Christians who want a partner who shares their faith
See the full ranking: the best dating sites for faith and community
Lifestyle sites are for adults 18+. Our reviews contain no explicit content.
The largest lifestyle community, strongest on events and travel.
- Price
- From $13.75/mo
- Best for
- Couples who want parties, takeovers and lifestyle travel
Polished app for open-minded singles and couples.
- Price
- From $12.50/mo
- Best for
- Younger singles and couples exploring open or non-traditional relationships
Long-running, low-cost lifestyle community with a US club map.
- Price
- From $5.83/mo
- Best for
- US couples on a budget who want local clubs and events
See the full ranking: the best swinger sites and apps in 2026
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| Add to comparison | Site | Score | Price | Best for | Links |
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| SDC The largest lifestyle community, strongest on events and travel. | 8.5/10 | From $13.75/mo | Couples who want parties, takeovers and lifestyle travel | Visit site | |
| Hinge The prompt-based app "designed to be deleted." | 8.4/10 | From about $17/moFree version | Daters in their 20s and 30s who want a relationship, not endless swiping | Visit site | |
| Bumble Swipe app with some of the strongest safety tools. | 8.3/10 | From about $9/moFree version | Women who want more control over who contacts them | Visit site | |
| Tinder The biggest swipe app, for everything from casual to serious. | 8.2/10 | From about $6/moFree version | Younger daters who want the largest pool | Visit site | |
| Feeld Polished app for open-minded singles and couples. | 8.2/10 | From $12.50/moFree version | Younger singles and couples exploring open or non-traditional relationships | Visit site | |
| HER Dating and community for queer women and non-binary people. | 7.9/10 | From about $8/moFree version | Lesbian, bi and queer women and non-binary people | Visit site | |
| Match The original paid dating site, built for serious relationships. | 7.7/10 | From $19.99/mo | Adults 30+ who want a committed relationship | Visit site | |
| SwingLifestyle Long-running, low-cost lifestyle community with a US club map. | 7.6/10 | From $5.83/moFree version | US couples on a budget who want local clubs and events | Visit site | |
| OurTime Low-cost dating for singles over 50. | 7.3/10 | From about $6/mo | People over 50 on a budget | Visit site | |
| Coffee Meets Bagel A few curated matches a day instead of endless swiping. | 7.3/10 | From about $15/moFree version | Busy professionals who want fewer, better matches | Visit site | |
| eharmony Compatibility-quiz matchmaking for marriage-minded singles. | 7.2/10 | From $35.90/mo | People looking for a long-term partner who want matches chosen for them | Visit site | |
| BlackPeopleMeet Long-running, low-cost dating for Black singles. | 6.9/10 | From about $12/mo | Black singles who want an affordable site | Visit site | |
| Plenty of Fish Free-first site and app where you can message without paying. | 6.8/10 | From about $11/moFree version | Budget daters who want to message for free | Visit site | |
| Zoosk Large, budget-friendly site with behavior-based matching. | 6.8/10 | From about $12/mo | Budget daters who want a big general site | Visit site | |
| SilverSingles Personality-matched dating for people over 50. | 6.6/10 | From about $14/mo | People over 50 who want compatibility matching | Visit site | |
| Christian Mingle The best-known site for Christian singles. | 6.6/10 | From $24.99/mo | Christians who want a partner who shares their faith | Visit site | |
| Kasidie Lifestyle social network built around events and travel. | 6.6/10 | From about $13/mo | Couples who go to parties and lifestyle travel | Visit site | |
| 3Fun Swipe-style app for couples and singles. | 6.4/10 | From $8.33/moFree version | Couples and singles who want a simple mobile app | Visit site | |
| AdultFriendFinder One of the oldest and largest adult dating networks. | 6.4/10 | From about $20/mo | Singles and couples who want the biggest pool | Visit site | |
| Ashley Madison Discreet dating that runs on credits, not subscriptions. | 6.3/10 | Credits from $59 | People who want discretion above all | Visit site | |
| Jdate The original dating site for Jewish singles. | 6.2/10 | From about $30/mo | Jewish singles who want to date within the faith | Visit site | |
| EliteSingles Personality-matched dating for professionals, relaunched in 2026. | 5.6/10 | From about $35/mo | Degree-educated professionals who want something serious | Visit site |
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