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Dating and community for queer women and non-binary people.
HER is part dating app, part community, built for queer women and non-binary people. The free version covers dating and community well.
| Best for | Lesbian, bi and queer women and non-binary people |
|---|---|
| One month | About $14.99 |
| Lowest price | From about $8/mo · App-store prices vary. |
| Free version | Matching and messaging, community chat rooms, events and the Feed. |
| App | iPhone and Android |
| Owner | Match Group |
| Founded | 2013 |
Ready to try HER?
From about $8/mo. You can start free.
The prompt-based app "designed to be deleted."
Best for Daters in their 20s and 30s who want a relationship, not endless swiping
Swipe app with some of the strongest safety tools.
Best for Women who want more control over who contacts them
The biggest swipe app, for everything from casual to serious.
Best for Younger daters who want the largest pool
HER costs about $14.99 for one month, or from about $8/mo on a longer plan. App-store prices vary. Prices were checked in October 2026 and can change, so confirm at checkout.
Matching and messaging, community chat rooms, events and the Feed. The free version is enough to meet people.
HER's safety features include: Selfie verification; Active moderation; Sign-up tied to a social account. It scores 8.0 out of 10 for safety and privacy in our ratings.
Lesbian, bi and queer women and non-binary people. The first app to try for queer women and non-binary daters.