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Lifestyle · 18+
Discreet dating that runs on credits, not subscriptions.
Ashley Madison is built around discretion, with generic billing and credit-based payments. Its 2015 hack still hangs over it.
| Best for | People who want discretion above all |
|---|---|
| One month | Not sold monthly |
| Lowest price | Credits from $59 · Credit-based: packages start at 100 credits for $59. Free for women. |
| Free version | Women use the main features free. Men pay credits to start conversations. |
| App | iPhone and Android |
| Owner | Ruby Corp. |
| Founded | 2001 |
Ready to try Ashley Madison?
Credits from $59. You can make a profile free and upgrade later.
Polished app for open-minded singles and couples.
Best for Younger singles and couples exploring open or non-traditional relationships
Swipe-style app for couples and singles.
Best for Couples and singles who want a simple mobile app
One of the oldest and largest adult dating networks.
Best for Singles and couples who want the biggest pool
Credit-based: packages start at 100 credits for $59. Free for women. Prices were checked in October 2026 and can change, so confirm at checkout.
Women use the main features free. Men pay credits to start conversations. To actually talk to people you'll need to pay.
Ashley Madison's safety features include: Discreet billing under a generic name; Pay by PayPal or gift card; A 2015 hack exposed about 37 million users. It scores 5.5 out of 10 for safety and privacy in our ratings.
People who want discretion above all. Only if discretion is your top priority, and go in knowing its history.