The best dating sites for faith and community
Christian Mingle and Jdate are the biggest faith-based sites, BlackPeopleMeet is the best value for Black singles, and HER is the top app for queer women.
4 sites ranked · Updated October 2026 · How we rate
Quick comparison
| Add to comparison | Site | Score | Price | Best for | Links |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| HER Dating and community for queer women and non-binary people. | 7.9/10 | From about $8/moFree version | Lesbian, bi and queer women and non-binary people | Visit site | |
| BlackPeopleMeet Long-running, low-cost dating for Black singles. | 6.9/10 | From about $12/mo | Black singles who want an affordable site | Visit site | |
| Christian Mingle The best-known site for Christian singles. | 6.6/10 | From $24.99/mo | Christians who want a partner who shares their faith | Visit site | |
| Jdate The original dating site for Jewish singles. | 6.2/10 | From about $30/mo | Jewish singles who want to date within the faith | Visit site |
No sites match those filters. Try turning off "Useful free version" or choosing "Anything".
The full ranking
- 1 Goodout of 10 Score 7.9 out of 10, Good
HER is part dating app, part community, built for queer women and non-binary people. The free version covers dating and community well.
- Built for queer women and non-binary people
- Community features beyond dating
- Cheap Premium
- Smaller pool outside cities
- Needs a Facebook or Instagram account
- App only
From about $8/mo · Useful free version Full review Visit HER - 2Fairout of 10 Score 6.9 out of 10, Fair
BlackPeopleMeet
Best for: Black singles who want an affordable site
BlackPeopleMeet is an affordable, established site for Black singles, run by the same group as Match.
- Low price
- Focused community
- Private calling with ConnectMe
- Can't message for free
- Dated design
- Smaller in rural areas
From about $12/mo Full review Visit BlackPeopleMeet - 3Fairout of 10 Score 6.6 out of 10, Fair
Christian Mingle
Best for: Christians who want a partner who shares their faith
Christian Mingle's parent company, Spark Networks, is in insolvency proceedings in Germany and the US in 2026 and is trying to sell its brands. Avoid long plans until the sale is settled.
Christian Mingle is the largest faith-based dating site in the US. It works, but it's pricey and its owner is in financial trouble.
- Biggest Christian member base
- Faith is part of every profile
- Simple site and app
- Can't message for free
- Owner in insolvency
- Privacy group Mozilla flagged its data sharing
From $24.99/mo Full review Visit Christian Mingle - 4Fairout of 10 Score 6.2 out of 10, Fair
Jdate
Best for: Jewish singles who want to date within the faith
Jdate's parent company, Spark Networks, is in insolvency proceedings in 2026. Check before paying for a long plan.
Jdate has been the go-to Jewish dating site since 1997. It's expensive, and its owner's insolvency makes its future uncertain.
- Largest Jewish-focused member base
- Observance level on profiles
- Long track record
- No messaging for free
- High prices
- Owner in insolvency
From about $30/mo Full review Visit Jdate
Questions people ask
What is the best dating sites for faith and community?
HER ranks first, with a score of 7.9 out of 10. The first app to try for queer women and non-binary daters.
Which one is cheapest?
HER has the lowest paid price on this list, from about $8/mo on its longest plan, checked October 2026.
Can I use any of these free?
HER has a free version that's enough to meet people. The others let you make a profile free but charge to message.
How did you rank these?
Each site is scored on real members, safety and privacy, value, matching and features, and ease of use. The overall score weights members and safety most heavily. Our methodology page explains each score.