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Lifestyle · 18+

SDC review

The largest lifestyle community, strongest on events and travel.

  • PriceFrom $13.75/mo
  • Free versionLimited
  • AppiPhone and Android

Our verdict

SDC is the biggest lifestyle community, with the best event and travel listings. Validations from other couples help you judge who's real.

At a glance

Best forCouples who want parties, takeovers and lifestyle travel
One month$33.00
Lowest priceFrom $13.75/mo · Lowest on a yearly plan. A lifetime plan is also offered.
Free versionJoin, browse, add travel plans and read first messages. Sending messages needs a paid membership.
AppiPhone and Android
OwnerSDC Media
Founded1999

Pros and cons

What we like

  • Best event and travel features
  • Large international membership
  • Staff-checked signups

What to watch for

  • Pricier than SwingLifestyle
  • Can't message for free
  • Busy interface

How SDC scores

  • Real, active members (30%) 9.0
  • Safety and privacy (25%) 8.5
  • Value (20%) 7.5
  • Matching and features (15%) 9.0
  • Ease of use (10%) 8.0

How we score

Features

  • Event and party listings, including hotel and cruise takeovers
  • Travel plans to meet people before you arrive
  • Member validations (couples vouch for each other)
  • Apps in 7 languages

Safety and privacy

  • Selfie checked by staff at signup
  • Moderated photos and private albums
  • Profiles hidden from Google
  • No phone number needed

Ready to try SDC?

From $13.75/mo. You can make a profile free and upgrade later.

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Questions people ask

How much does SDC cost?

SDC costs $33.00 for one month, or from $13.75/mo on a longer plan. Lowest on a yearly plan. A lifetime plan is also offered. Prices were checked in October 2026 and can change, so confirm at checkout.

Is SDC free?

Join, browse, add travel plans and read first messages. Sending messages needs a paid membership. To actually talk to people you'll need to pay.

Is SDC safe?

SDC's safety features include: Selfie checked by staff at signup; Moderated photos and private albums; Profiles hidden from Google; No phone number needed. It scores 8.5 out of 10 for safety and privacy in our ratings.

Who is SDC best for?

Couples who want parties, takeovers and lifestyle travel. The top pick for couples who want events and travel.

Sources

SDC8.5/10 · From $13.75/mo
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