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eharmony review

Compatibility-quiz matchmaking for marriage-minded singles.

  • PriceFrom $35.90/mo
  • Free versionLimited
  • AppiPhone and Android

Our verdict

eharmony asks you a long set of questions, then sends you matches instead of making you swipe. It suits people who want marriage and don't mind a slower pace.

At a glance

Best forPeople looking for a long-term partner who want matches chosen for them
One monthNo monthly plan
Lowest priceFrom $35.90/mo · No monthly plan. 6, 12 and 24-month plans; the lowest price is on 24 months.
Free versionTake the Compatibility Quiz, see your matches and send smiles and icebreakers. Photos, personal messages and search filters need a paid plan.
AppiPhone and Android
OwnerParshipMeet Group
Founded2000

Pros and cons

What we like

  • Matching does the searching for you
  • Members are there for long-term relationships
  • Compatibility breakdowns give you things to talk about

What to watch for

  • No month-to-month option
  • One of the more expensive sites
  • Free version is very limited

How eharmony scores

  • Real, active members (30%) 7.5
  • Safety and privacy (25%) 7.5
  • Value (20%) 5.5
  • Matching and features (15%) 8.5
  • Ease of use (10%) 7.0

How we score

Features

  • Compatibility Quiz
  • Detailed compatibility breakdowns
  • Unlimited messaging (Premium)
  • See who viewed you

Safety and privacy

  • Long signup quiz screens out casual users
  • Paid membership required to message

Ready to try eharmony?

From $35.90/mo. You can make a profile free and upgrade later.

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HER

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Questions people ask

How much does eharmony cost?

eharmony has no monthly plan. It costs from $35.90/mo on its longest plan. No monthly plan. 6, 12 and 24-month plans; the lowest price is on 24 months. Prices were checked in October 2026 and can change, so confirm at checkout.

Is eharmony free?

Take the Compatibility Quiz, see your matches and send smiles and icebreakers. Photos, personal messages and search filters need a paid plan. To actually talk to people you'll need to pay.

Is eharmony safe?

eharmony's safety features include: Long signup quiz screens out casual users; Paid membership required to message. It scores 7.5 out of 10 for safety and privacy in our ratings.

Who is eharmony best for?

People looking for a long-term partner who want matches chosen for them. Worth the cost if marriage is the goal and you'd rather be matched than browse.

Sources

eharmony7.2/10 · From $35.90/mo
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