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Lifestyle · 18+
One of the oldest and largest adult dating networks.
AFF has a huge member base, but also a major breach history and plenty of fake profiles.
| Best for | Singles and couples who want the biggest pool |
|---|---|
| One month | About $35.95 |
| Lowest price | From about $20/mo · Gold membership; sources disagree on prices. |
| Free version | Profile, browsing, groups and search. Private messages need a paid plan. |
| App | iPhone and Android |
| Owner | FriendFinder Networks |
| Founded | 1996 |
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From about $20/mo. You can make a profile free and upgrade later.
The largest lifestyle community, strongest on events and travel.
Best for Couples who want parties, takeovers and lifestyle travel
Polished app for open-minded singles and couples.
Best for Younger singles and couples exploring open or non-traditional relationships
Long-running, low-cost lifestyle community with a US club map.
Best for US couples on a budget who want local clubs and events
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AdultFriendFinder costs about $35.95 for one month, or from about $20/mo on a longer plan. Gold membership; sources disagree on prices. Prices were checked in October 2026 and can change, so confirm at checkout.
Profile, browsing, groups and search. Private messages need a paid plan. To actually talk to people you'll need to pay.
AdultFriendFinder's safety features include: Email verification; Profiles hidden from Google; A 2016 breach exposed hundreds of millions of accounts; Reports of fake profiles. It scores 4.5 out of 10 for safety and privacy in our ratings.
Singles and couples who want the biggest pool. Big, but not for anyone who prioritizes privacy.